Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy to help you
navigate midlife with clarity & Calm

Welcome to this sanctuary.
Settle the anxiety,
find your steady ground and…

Live a life more alive

Stella Tomlinson - a woman with reddish brown curly hair and gold hoop earrings smiling outdoors with trees and green foliage in the background.

Hi, I’m Stella.
Anxiety Therapist & Author.

Let me help you guide your mind and body out of stress and back to calm.

No digging up the past.

Just practical, soulful support to help you settle the anxiety and reclaim inner peace.

A personal welcome from Stella

Are you living, or Just managing?

You’ve spent years holding everything together.

Meeting expectations.
Being a good partner / parent / employee / friend.

You may look as though you're coping well.

But…

You overthink.

Second-guess yourself.

Worry about things you can't control.

You feel you’re merely surviving
rather than truly living.

And perhaps you’re asking these bigger questions…

Who am I now?

What matters most to me?

What do I want from this next chapter of my life?

Welcome to this
forward-looking space
where neuroscience
meets soulful depth

Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy is entirely different from traditional talk therapies that dwell on the past.

Instead we look to the future.

We work together to calm your body and mind to help you:

  • Focus on what you need

  • Where you want to go

  • And the positive steps you can take to get there.

More about hypnotherapy

A different way forward

Together, we can help you:

  • Manage anxiety, fears & overwhelm:
    Quieten the mental noise, calm fears and find your steady ground

…if procrastination, rumination or phobias/fears are keeping you stuck.

  • Overcome creative blocks:
    Calm the inner critic so you can return to your flow

…perfect for writers, academics and creatives.

  • Navigate life transitions:
    Find clarity and stability during times of change

…such as midlife, perimenopause or career shifts.

  • Nurture self-worth & confidence:
    Move past self-doubt and the habit of second-guessing yourself

…if you struggle with people-pleasing or feeling 'not enough'.

  • Reclaim energy & boundaries:
    Learn to protect your time and say a gentle, firm 'no'

…if you are exhausted from carrying everyone else's expectations or navigating complex family dynamics.

And create meaningful, lasting change.

Hear from some previous clients

  • Close-up of a young fern frond curled tightly with a fuzzy appearance, with sunlight creating a bright, blurred background.

    “Stella’s sessions feel safe, gentle, and encouraging, yet stretching and transformative at the same time.

    Stella has a wonderful way of making you feel at ease, while also skilfully asking insightful questions to help you take small, powerful steps forward.

    I came away from each session feeling not only inspired to move forward but incredibly relaxed and grounded!

    I feel more resilient – like I can handle whatever life throws at me without becoming overwhelmed.”

    — Lizzie (Winchester, UK)

  • Sunlight through trees

    “I recommend Stella because I found her knowledgeable, empathetic and clearly passionate about her work"

    Throughout the sessions, I felt supported, safe and energised to make the changes I wanted to make.

    I came looking for help with procrastination, but I feel I have taken away a much deeper understanding of myself, along with practical tools that I can continue using beyond the sessions.”

    — Samantha (Southampton, UK)

  • Sunrise through three trees in a field

    “Stella is very personable and immediately makes you feel comfortable"

    I felt I could be completely honest and no subjects were off limits. Stella was never judgmental about anything I shared. Instead she helped me make sense of certain feelings and behaviours.

    I was hoping to achieve a ‘quieter mind’ and Stella was very supportive in this.

    The model of looking forward and focusing on solutions was a new concept for me but it gave me ownership and responsibility to take control which was very liberating.”

    — Amber (Hampshire, UK)

  • Sunlight through tree branches

    "Stella is a very likeable, kind, perceptive and caring person"

    She listens, summarises and reflects back what you have said very well.

    She is also good at giving you time to process and work out for what actions you may need to take.

    I like the process in the therapy where one talks through the positive things that have happened recently and then concentrates on something I could do to improve my life even more. 

    I feel this process has helped me to make better decisions myself and not to let my monkey brain or irrational thoughts take over.”

    — Bryony (Southampton, UK)

About Stella

As an author, my path has always been about crafting simple, soulful words that offer a quiet sanctuary.

And as a former yoga and meditation teacher, I have long been fascinated by how worries drop away and clarity arises when the mind and body deeply rest.

Becoming a Solution-Focused Hypnotherapist was the natural evolution of this lifelong exploration.

Today, I combine my love for the power of healing words and deep relaxation with evidence-based solution-focused therapy, to help you quiet the overthinking, reclaim your energy, and step forward into a calmer, more confident life.

Meet Stella

Are you ready to begin?

If you’re ready to begin moving towards your preferred future, you’re very welcome here.

Together let’s get you feeling calmer, clearer, and more like yourself again.

Embrace this season of life and walk your path with confidence and clarity.

Let’s help you live a life more alive.

How to work with me

I work online via Zoom.

I’m based in the UK but can see clients from anywhere in the world.